Episode 10

90 Day The Other Way Recap | S7E10 "Mind the Gap" Was INSANE | Cow Urine, Free Food & $20K Debt?! 😳

Published on: 11th November, 2025

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way S7E10 "Mind the Gap" was INSANE! Hosts Lauren (bankruptcy attorney) and Dee (paralegal) dive into the chaos: cow urine blessings, the $20,000 credit card debt crisis, and a Family Café meltdown.

We analyze **Sumit**'s water freakout and the shocking Cow Urine blessing at the soft opening with **Jenny**. Plus, we dive deep into **Pattiya** & **Dylan**’s $20K revolving debt crisis—and why selling an appreciating asset (like a rental property) to pay it off is a terrible financial idea. We also unpack the toxic triangle of **Luke**, **Brian**, and **Madelien**. And finally, we check in on **Greta** & **Matthew**.


Get the receipts and the reality-TV edit goggles!


💬 Tell us: Would you sell a rental to clear a partner’s debt?


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Timestamps:

00:00 Cold open: “Mind the Gap” & British double entendres

01:27 Welcome + 95 subs shout-out & edit talk (hi, Minnow!)

03:14 Sick day vibes, weather whiplash, pajamas & comments

04:06 Family CafĂ© road-trip chant: “Cook and get paid”

06:06 Potato-bread rolls: Wonder Bread, space constraints, menu scope

07:59 What even is “potato bread roll” with coffee? Pumpkin-spice, anyone?

08:47 New sign up, diner-style menu (fries, eggs, pasta, Maggi noodles)

10:16 Water from bathroom spigot meltdown; boiling vs. filtration logic

12:15 Planning fail before “grand”/soft opening; Team Parents vs. Sumit

12:54 Blessing with holy water + cow urine (cultural note & hygiene squeamishness)

14:14 Soft opening = full plates?! Samples vs. giveaways debate

15:56 Jenny vs. the espresso machine; “Jenny’s Spaghetti” lore (red or white)

17:32 “Cook and get paid”
 but we gave it all away

17:54 Australia: Pattiya & Dylan furniture shopping (neutrals, theater sectional)

20:28 Price tags vs. debt; $2.7k vs. $1k couch

20:41 Debt talk: $20k on 5 cards; interest, capitalization, payoff strategy

22:32 Backstory: Thailand move, prior $60k paid; current plan & spending sprees

24:33 Financial advice vibes: pay down high-interest vs. pricey furniture

25:32 Don’t sell rental property to cover partner’s revolving debt (assets appreciate)

26:24 Quick legal note: cross-border collections (talk to local counsel; not legal advice)

28:38 Cozies & hot chocolate; pivot to Greta & Matthew (kids doubt & sad ornaments story)

33:00 Luke meets Brian (Madelien off-screen): “green card”/entrepreneur edit

35:55 “Afraid to be alone” — not a marriage reason; toxic reads

41:18 Who funds what? Beauty studio, rent, food, “a lot” spend — commingled finances

43:27 Wrap-up & next: Sister Wives


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⚖ Disclaimer: This content is for entertainment and general information only; it is not legal or financial advice. Lauren is licensed in SC.

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